Phrases I identify with:

• Enginerd

• Neurospicy (I am ADHD)

• Fur parent

• Trying to be American-born with Asian presentation

• Being a woman in a male-dominated workplace

Talk to me about:

• Being neurospicy and how that’s impacting your ability to function in the world. (I’m ADHD myself).

• Grief

• Divorce: You didn’t go into your marriage thinking it would turn out like this.

• Affairs: I am a huge fan of Ester Perel, and her life’s work. She brings to light an area of humanity that society prefers to sweep to the shadows.

• Sneakyarchy